I adore your candid video! So sweet of you for sharing. Here's a suggestion for next year: after the last vegan dinner I served my family, I announced that the men would clean up and the women would enjoy some coffee in the living room. Everyone on both sides of the gender line were shocked! I've really noticed that around the world, the men get to smoke cigars or whatever after a meal, while the women (yes, usually cheerfully) clean up. Well this time, the men cheerfully cleaned up (and did a perfect job) and we women got to sit back and relax. Not one complaint and I think everyone felt good about it. Maybe next time, we'll pull straws and mix it up.