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arisa’s kind pregnancy
Posted by Alicia Silverstone on Jul 12, 2011


Arisa and Family
I met Kind Lifer Arisa at a book signing in Pasadena. She has a great story about switching to a kind diet during pregnancy. Check it out!

“I grew up believing meat and dairy were an essential part of my life. I couldn’t live without my bacon cheeseburgers. I was sure vegetarians had no clue what they were missing otherwise they wouldn’t give up meat. And I figured vegans had to have had a serious brain injury to willingly give up cheese. Despite my high protein diet, I was sluggish, suffered from frequent colds, had been diagnosed with reflux of the esophagus, allergies, and severe headaches from TMJ. I thought since I was in so much pain as a teenager, I probably wouldn’t live past thirty.

When I was in my third trimester of pregnancy with my first daughter, my health spiraled even further downhill. I wasn’t sleeping at night; I had heart burn, pain from my reflux, and no energy. Although those are all “normal” aches and pains that go with pregnancy I believed that with life growing inside me, I should be feeling my best. So I decided to change my diet. I remembered a raw diet I had come across when I was in high school, and switched to it immediately. I had lots of juices, salads, and beans; soon my pain disappeared. I felt better than I had in years. The head aches from my TMJ even lightened up, because I was sleeping so well at night. I felt light, something I never imagined I would feel while being pregnant. My belly grew, and I continued to gain weight, but fat on my love handles and legs disappeared, all thanks to my improved diet.

I had a home birth, and it was the greatest experience of my life. It felt right. Like that was the way I was meant to give birth, in a place where I was comfortable, with few rules and no one pressuring me to get the process done a certain way. I was allowed to trust my body. Sure, it was totally painful, but the midwives and my husband had so much faith in me, that I was able to deliver naturally and it was such an overwhelmingly beautiful bonding experience for our new little family. Our daughter Thérèse was born not breathing, and the midwives handled it with ease. We have pictures of my husband cuddling our newly born baby and feeding oxygen through a tube to her, not even an hour old. We were glad we weren’t in a hospital where they would have whisked her away immediately and we wouldn’t have been very involved.”

Arisa also shared this update with me:

"Both my in-laws have become vegan and they love their new lifestyle! Their cholesterol and weight have dropped so much with just the change of diet, that my mother-in-law's doctor wanted to know if she had been exercising more. They are such an inspiration to me and help me stay focused."

What a beautiful family! You guys look like teenagers! Your picture is so great - like an ad for cuteness. For more about Arisa and her family, you can check out Arisa's blog here.

If any of you Kind Lifers have a success story you’d like to share, private message me, or publish a note to your profile and “like” it. I may feature you on the homepage of The Kind Life!



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I love stories like this!  I was a vegetarian with my first pregnancy and a meat-eater with my second.  My second pregnancy was a lot harder on my body.  I don't know if it's because I was 10 years older by that point or because of the unhealthy food I was eating.  If I had it to do all over again, I would definitely have a kind pregnancy both times.

--Emily Sweet  http://www.onesweetvegan.com/

I love that your in laws are on board! Mine are very supportive, but not vegan themselves. What a great fam!

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I had 2 hospital births.  They checked both the baby's vital signs and gave them both right back to me.  None of the comments on this website ever give any positive light to hospital births.  My children were not "whisked away."  I breastfed almost immediately after they were born and I did it with the comforting knowledge that they had been thoroughly checked out.  

such a cute family...her story definitely made me smile smiley-laughing.gif

it's a great story, I believe it's true that a vegan diet help very much a woman during pregnancy, it's another good reason, it seem a good idea to give the future baby healthy things and it help the mother cope with the difficulties of pregnancy... However I'm not certain about giving birth at home, I agree hospitals are not a very humane place to give birth but what if some serious complications arise? I bought some already-made pea soup today, if I can start eating more healthy food now and then it would be good...

Thank you for sharing your story! I needed that! I only just discovered The Kind Life today. I have wanted to find a support group and a never ending source of information other than books to aid me in a vegetarian life style. It wasn't until a recent mishap that I decided to reach out. My boyfriend of almost 3 years made an unbelievably insulting comment. He said, "I don't think vegetarians should breast feed." Although I have every intention of breast feeding and am confident that I will have a healthy pregnancy and child (I'm not even close to being pregnant by the way), his opinion made me feel inadequate and badly about myself.

I always admired Alicia's lifestyle choice so I was pleased to discover TKL tonight. And even better? Arisa's story is the first thing I read! Exactly what I needed. (hug)

I definetely want a similar story next time I'm pregnant :)

Julie it's wonderful that you had birth experiences like that at the hospital. I think the distinction was that at home, the baby was able to stay near the mother while a complication was being dealt with, whereas if that was happening in the hospital, the baby would've been treated elsewhere.

Monkey114, homebirth outcomes tend overwhelmingly toward the positive. Statistically home birth in the western world is as safe as hospital birth, and though every birth is different, also tends to involve many fewer interventions.

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